I don't like large or heavy watches. Drives me nuts. I'm kinda weird like that I supose. I don't even like change in my pockets. So...I buy the lightest / smallest watchs I can find.
The last two every day watches I got were Seiko Titanium. They are small enough and very light. I see the price has dropped on this one dramatically since I bought the damn thing.
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B000X5LMB8/ref=oh_details_o05_s00_i00For dress, I have a Rolex Cellini Clasic I bought a few years ago. It's plain, simple, light weight, nice leather band.