Re: Valentime's Day
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I'm basically with Rick on this. My wife has no expectations on Valentine's Day. We have an awesome life together every day.
AND I got her some roses today.
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Re: Valentime's Day
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My wife doesn't even like roses, and we don't do V day. Forget a card on her birthday, though, and dude...
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Joyce hates cards...she says they're such a waste of money. Actually, most of her thoughts on this run along the theme of Michaels posts: The "Holidays" made up by HallMark, etc.
We're not doing anything today, though we might try to go out to dinner this week if we can get a puppy sitter. We used to go out a few times a week but haven't been out since November now.
::::::: No disrespect to Axiom, but my favorite woofer is my yellow lab :::::::
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I don't celebrate the love for my wife once a year, I do it every day by my words and actions. That is what love is about, not some made up holiday.
Bingo. That's precisely how my wife & I see it too. A nice dinner. Roses. Cards. Chocolates. Those things should not be reserved for one "special" day a year for the one you love.
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Pshh. You're so puppy-whipped.
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Pshh. You're so puppy-whipped.
Rick
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I am the Doctor, and THIS... is my SPOON!
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I don't celebrate the love for my wife once a year, I do it every day by my words and actions. That is what love is about, not some made up holiday.
Bingo. That's precisely how my wife & I see it too. A nice dinner. Roses. Cards. Chocolates. Those things should not be reserved for one "special" day a year for the one you love. My wife and I have been married 25 years and together for 27. I actually agree with both viewpoints - you don't last as long as we have unless you live it day in and day out. She hates the Valentine's pressure - so we usually low key it. This year, rather than buying a hokey card, I wrote her a letter. Ran that by several ladies here at work and they said it was an excellent idea.
"A fanatic is someone who can't change his mind and won't change the subject" Churchill
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One point of clarification - the letter is hand written on paper with a pen - for those too young to remember that form of communication. I tried using cursive - but, alas, that seems to be a dying artform for me....
"A fanatic is someone who can't change his mind and won't change the subject" Churchill
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In true "me" fashion, my newest "future ex-girlfriend" got a card that reads "I like my Valentines like I like my martinis... dirty."
I am really not good at taking this holiday seriously.
A few years ago, my poem ended "I love you from far, I love you when near... if you're passing the fridge, can you bring back a beer?"
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